My experience too, with exception that I also order stuff I can not find locally. Like HiSense phone with eInk display I am using just now.

Don’t.

But really, relationships are hard in person, long distance is juat torture.

Additionally, federation messages probably can be easily separated to different server, and is being made much more efficient right now.

It is not like any other social network has become sustainable business. Reddit, Twitter, YouTube, FB all are net losers with all trials with and selling user data.

We can safely say that after almost 20 we still don’t have sustainable business model for soc networks.

Let’s try with donations.

If they really want to prevent us from watching videos without ads, they can. They know of the ad is watched or not, we can have some kind of auto-mute-during-ad but that’s it.

Question is if they will kill network effect with it.

I have already drastically reducedy yt watching because of too many sponsors… watching two minutes of sponsored material, plus two ads just to see that I don’t even wanna watch the stupid video is too much.

Not to mention those laud ads in the middle of relaxing and quiet video… few months ago one ad was starting with screaming, that’s when I said no way.