I don’t understand why these people weren’t in jail already!

This right here is the correct answer. Almost immediately you realize it doesn’t matter.

Gnome. It’s minimalistic and extensible.

Apparently you can run the wefwef.app front end as well.

Raindrop.io, Pinboard, Linkding, Wallabag, NextCloud

Netgear Orbi mesh system. It works pretty well. I think when this system dies I’ll go back to using Ubiquiti gear.