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Cake day: June 12th, 2023

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  • Tbh, it’s not a fairy tale but an illustrated children’s book written in 1845 by Heinrich Hoffman for his three year old kid. It was one of the first illustrated books, so it is considered to be one of the first comic books. Each story has a morale but is way over the top.

    Interestingly a lot of the descibed behavior is known to be with ADHD or anorexia, today.

    Growing up in Germany I always find Struwelpeter a quite horrible book (yes, I too had it a kid).




  • I agree with the last statement at about a 70% level. The last 30% missing is - like you can’t tickle yourself, there’s some sensations that are different just because another person does them to you.

    I’m not anti relationship, it’s just when viewing sex alone a lot of the things I experienced with someone else are just overrated. With very very few exceptions when I met humans with extremely high emotional intelligence.

    But maybe in the end that’s all a discussion, that we all are generally bad in knowing and communicating what feels good for each other.






  • I’m 53 now and was considering getting an official diagnosis a few years ago, I even had the initial appointments set up.

    I canceled it, because there was too much going on in my life at that moment (even got a notification I could reschedule for later)

    All that made me think about what I was hoping for from diagnosis. In the end it was just having something in writing that would help me with self-acceptance.

    Around that time I also was in a group psychotherapy so I talked about that and that part is now solved.

    Regarding meds - I don’t want to try them now as my other coping strategies are good enough at the moment and I’m a bit wary of side effects as I need to take a handful of. medicine every day, anyways.

    In the end you need to decide why you want a diagnosis. If you want to try meds I’d go for it. (My son “inherited” it from me and had meds for a time, which really helped him).

    In a case like mine where I didn’t expect any new strategies out of it or didn’t want meds - it was probably the right decision to skip it.