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  • Yeah, it can be hard because everyone has shit going on, it’s why having someone in your life whose specific job is to help you with stuff like this is so helpful, because it feels less like pilling on to someone else. You can of course hire a PA, but that becomes expensive, but it’s definitely worth looking around, try ADHD/neurodiversity specific charities or organisations, but depending on your circumstances you might qualify for other types of places too.

    Also, don’t be embarrassed, I’ve taken years to sort shit out, life is already so overwhelming, having additional barriers to deal with these aspects of life can make it almost impossible at times. You’re doing your best.


  • it’s a little easier said than done.… it’s weirdly difficult to get help and executive dysfunction can be a real bitch.

    Oh 100%, executive dysfunction really is an absolute bitch, and getting through that wall can be the hardest fucking part!

    Not to mention just how hard it can be to find medical staff that isn’t burnt out to the point of not giving a crap… :/

    I know it seems like just adding an extra step, but have you considered checking if there are any (volunteer) patient advocacy services available near you? I have some other difficulties too, so more help might be available to me, and also I don’t know where you are, in US it might be too big an ask, but having an advocate has been a game changer for me - they help make calls for you to arrange appointments and follow ups and stuff, help liaise with staff if you need them to, basically they jump a lot of the hurdles for you to help you get to where you need to be.

    If something like that isn’t available, is there anyone in your life that you’d trust to advocate for you? In any case, you’d need to give permission to your provider to speak to them on your behalf, which again seems like just an extra step, but I really think that sharing some of the burden of acting with someone else can be a great help (though it might not work for you, and that’s ok too).


  • ShareMySims@sh.itjust.workstoADHD@lemmy.worldInfuriating appointment today
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    12 days ago

    That’s outrageous, you shouldn’t have to deal with this bullshit.

    I agree with the other reply - report them and find a new GP, I know that’s a massive pain and hassle, but it’s so important to have a medical team that is there to help you make your life better, not judge and police you according to their own questionable morals.









  • I uh, I don’t think it’s reasonable to expect people to check others profiles to ensure we are correctly pronouning them

    And yet, in that little whine right there, you managed to use the very gender neutral pronoun that would have saved you all this hassle (including the hassle you’re making up of having to go and look up the pronouns of every individual you interact with).

    So you know it exists, and you know how to use it, but you decided to try and be funny instead, and it backfired.

    You misgendered someone, and now have to deal with the most minor of minorest consequences for harm you caused to another.

    You are still free to create 100 different accounts on 100 different instances, just not the one where you broke the rules. No one owes you a platform, deal with it.

    Your choice now is to double down and make it worse, or you can be an adult, admit you made a mistake, and learn from it for the future so you don’t repeat it.

    I dare to say you have already chosen, but feel free to prove me wrong.