• itslilith@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    5 days ago

    Okay, I hope you understand why this is wrong to say, right?

    • not all intimate relationships involve sex, but even if
    • many trans women are sterile. be it from orchiectomy or full-on bottom surgery, but even if not
    • many (if not most) trans women are uninterested in or even repulsed to be the penetrating partner during sex, if they are even capable of it

    There is a definitive point to be made to avoid penis-in-vagina sex to protect oneself. There is also a certain lysistratite point to denying men, who as a group are predominantly responsible for denying women bodily and social autonomy including reproductive and contraceptive rights, the pleasure of a relationship or sex in general.

    But the only reason I see why lesbian relationships, and that includes trans women, should be under scrutiny as well, is bigotry.