We’ve had a few instances where the party decided we want to go do thing, but there was no way the DM had prepared. We let him know “this is a thing we’d like to pursue later” and get on with the planned events. We try to remember that his time is valuable!
This is the ideal. I think a problem also comes up because I think a lot of people (DMs included) feel like “peak Dnd” is when you could in theory, go anywhere and do anything your party wants, and you just need to review few quick notes and be ready to go.
We’ve had a few instances where the party decided we want to go do thing, but there was no way the DM had prepared. We let him know “this is a thing we’d like to pursue later” and get on with the planned events. We try to remember that his time is valuable!
This is the ideal. I think a problem also comes up because I think a lot of people (DMs included) feel like “peak Dnd” is when you could in theory, go anywhere and do anything your party wants, and you just need to review few quick notes and be ready to go.